Party! and On Being Alone

3Matt7th Feb 2009Life Lessons

So I’m currently unwinding from my little going away party… Thanks very much to everyone who was able to come!

The thing that I keep realizing is that I’m not alone.  This is repeatedly proving to be a profound piece of my life right now, and I want to learn this more and more.  Being connected to others is truly what is important in life and I hate that my decision to move to Zambia is disconnecting me from these people who love me so deeply.

Mainly, I suppose, this is a realization regarding Heather…  She gives me so much and I’m so unappreciative.  I have a lot to learn and I’m so lucky to be dating a woman who respects me, loves me, and supports me the ways that she does, even in the midst of an awful situation.  Thank you, Heather.

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  1. Mom (February 8, 2009, 8:36 am).

    Yeah, I remember the tiny toddler so excited to get a brother so he didn’t have to be alone (Matt’s most boring place of all) any more…you have so many wonderful friends now, they are really a blessing!

    This season “alone” (of course you are not, really) will be a time of reflection and growing of yourself and in the Lord. And remember, as I know you do, this isn’t about “you” but about those you serve. Your dad and I are so proud of you for following God’s call in your life, He’s gonna bless your obedience so much, and all will be just f-i-n-e!!! We will all be with you while you are alone my precious son.

  2. brother (February 14, 2009, 10:17 am).

    maybe i’ll just move to zambia with you.

    i’m sad i missed your party! i was trying to set up a quick flight home, but i found that working full time, yet still not having money and having a one year anniversary are hard things to plan a spur of the moment trip around.

    love you matt

  3. Kenzi's Mom (February 17, 2009, 8:41 pm).

    I am SO excited for you — may God bless you and send His best adventurous/compassionate/mind&heart stretching/music-loving angels to be with you. You will never be alone! Zambia is on our list of “gotta see” countries — we’ll be sure to look you up if we’re in the neighborhood! :)

    Start posting pictures asap — we’d love to experience it along with you!

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